Сочинение-рассуждение на тему Гнев в жизни людей

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Envy.

Envy is one of the most harmful and dangerous feeling which people experience. It is so widespread in society that even a close friend can bear it against you. Why does it happen? Why can't most people fight against it? I admit that there is hardly any person in the world who has never felt vexation, roused by someone else's prosperity or success. There is always someone beside you who is better at studying, sports, or love, who is prettier, smarter, more confident, strong-willed or industrious. This list may be continued for ever and ever. Of course you will cut a poor figure against such a go -getter. It sounds rather depressing, but unfortunately it is the simple truth of our life.

I have a classmate who is jealous of just everyone. It is envy that influences her deeds, behavior and state of mind. Sometimes she is a very agreeable and cheerful girl, but such outbursts of high spirits are rare. Some time ago I thought she would make a faithful close friend for me, but after a few serious conversations on different matters I realized I was wrong.

I figured out that the main goal for her becoming diligent, strong-minded and persistent was to become as successful and happy as her classmates. You may think there is nothing extraordinary in such behavior - everyone longs for happiness and success. But first and foremost she dislikes people who have something she doesn't possess: leadership in some field, respect on the part of the classmates, close relations with guys. Overfilled with self-dissatisfaction she works off all her anger, irritation and bad temper on the people who surround her. Believed me, it's not very pleasant.

Her reaction to absolutely in-offensive words like "you look nice today" may be not adequate. When talking to her on the phone and asking how she is getting on you can hear a rude answer: "That's none of your business. What do you want from me?" The most amazing thing is that she considers it a trifle, while other people can be offended. Besides ,I find her way of looking at other people very unpleasant: she casts such a gloomy glare at a person as if she wants to deprive him of something. From time to time I notice her eyes fixed upon me and try to understand what she thinks of me on this occasion.

She always thinks that she is the only person who prepares for lessons without sleeping at night and being constantly tired. It's quite ridiculous! Every person who wants to enter a university without paying money does his best to gain profound knowledge in the necessary field. So she isn't alone!

At the same time, I'd like to mention that the single advantage of her envy is that she is motivated to develop her skills and knowledge on the example of other people. Maybe in the future she achieve everything she wants: stable prosperity and quick promotion. I hope this will make her pleasant with herself, with her abilities and fate. But at present I try to avoid being with her in order not to be abused or offended.

I'm not perfect, and I faced this problem too. It was awful, as I was envious of my best friend. Fortunately, I managed this situation; otherwise our friendship would have fallen apart.

In conclusion I'd like to say that it's not enough to conceal this sensation- that will bring only bitterness and shame. Don't accuse the surrounding world of all your failures and vent your spleen upon friends; try to do your best to cope with this devastating emotion through talking to the object of your envy. When you do away with it you will certainly sigh with relief!


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